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raajkishor
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 3:15 pm    Post subject: Theme Wedding Reply with quote

Dear friends
once again i am the same person.... who is dumping lots nd lots of msg with hope some1 will read nd care abt it.... again its my hope

We can never understand poverty of India without understanding wealth of Indians.
ok, Theme wedding is the wedding where u make replica of some model like Tajmahal at cost of Rs.20m. It is the modest price now a days. It is in practice in metro cities like kolkata, mumbai nd others. Delhi feels more patriotic nd go for Kargil War as a theme for the wedding. It covers 1.5 acre of land with canvas making replica of dead soldiers of India nd Pakistan. Many of us might have attended such weddings. Theme wedding comes under the fashion industry who creates clothes nd replica. cost is 20 million rs.

At the same time , in countryside weddings are collapsing. Farmers are committing suicide because they are unable to get their daughters married. No one has the Money !!!. In Wienar district of Kerala, once richest district in human development report, the marriages are down by 50% in 2004. Only because they could not afford to get their doughters married. One common link in suicide is that man takes his life because he could not get his daughter married. And a year later, Girls commit suicide beleiving that she is responsible for the father's death.

on the one hand THEME Wedding nd on other NO Wedding.

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subha
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 4:18 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

hi rajkishor and everyone,

thank you rajkishor for bringing into notice these kind of things which we navodayans should really think about.

i think we should to do something for the society too. I mean some social service for the poor section of the society, within our limits or according to our capability.

already there was a discussion on this in hyderabad meet and some members came up with the idea to limit the scope to navodayas first.

so friends what do you all think about this ? rewa, where r u? i think this is the first time i am overtaking you.........


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Gour
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi Raaj , Subha And all,
The points that have been put here is really worthy and need our attention of ours to think about it. This points are here that really
starts the storm inside. This is only one example . If I get a chance then I will tell you the parts of life. In the villages a women work on the field for
8 hours standing on the field, tilted on her waist and in the evening she gets only Rs 30. So what do you think that will be enough for the family.
What we are doing writing some of the line here and feels that i have enlightened the readers.We are mistaken here.Our work should be more on the fields.
The peoples deserve much more than they get. So Don't you think that we should do something .What is the purpose of the establishment of the Navodaya
Vidyalayas?
Through this students of every community will come and when they will come back to their society they will return something to the society.
So dears come on and lets do something for the society.
I will tell again that just counting the problems will not work . So we count our problem and then we should think that everywhere there
are so much problem , then why we are so much away from the those things . Let me clear the points the points I said above. You have heard
from many people speaking "I don't like politics "etc etc. The situation is so viscious and we are talking that we will avoid to go through that. If someone is suffering from tuberculosis and no one is going to help the person ( no one like tubeculosis) . Then Surely the person is going to die.So dear we should awake now and should do for the society.
I am totally in agree with Subha about her idea.I am very happy to inform you that I am doing some social work in Katihar.And really this gives lot of satisfaction .So do not wait for the appropriate time to come . May be time that you will get will be worse than today.. May we can make the coming world better and better.So come on and go to the field and do for your society that have given you a lot So
people should be encouraged here to speak what they are doing . From this we will be inspired from each other.
I have somewhere put some strong words . So please don't take anyone wrong of it . All I have written in good faith.
Wishing we will see a better world tommorow , different from todays discrimination.
Thanks

regards
Gour Hari
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raajkishor
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PostPosted: Thu Apr 06, 2006 11:04 pm    Post subject: Why I am posting such msgs Reply with quote

Dear frds

1st I will take this opportunity to congratulate Gour for initiating such a good nobel work at Katihar. nd thank him for sharing such an enlightening ideas at this public forum.

kudos to Gour !!!

My purpose of posting the msg is not just to enlighten my readers. My point is where ever we live nd see that india is shining around us nd we also get convinced to see this in newspaper. In fact, it is not a true picture. India is not shining every where. (if u r really interested in knowing, plz go thru my other postings as well)

In last 10 yrs, i don't see software as the fastest grown sector , but it is widening gap of rich nd poor which grew much more faster than that.

for those who say what 1 person can do? ppl will not support us , blah blah... i have no words for them... most of u are making such statements without giving any try!!
So I refrain myself frm discussing on that bcoz our discussion concludes at we sud do nd then we go to bed. I hate this word SHOULD. We must do it.

like what gour suggested, thr r lots of work at ground level where we can take initiative. As we most of the navodeans r frm village. We can work to ensure the Minimum wage, Efficient functioning of PDS (Public Distribution System) nd Panchaiyti Raj Institutions etc.
Dear frds I am not making blind statements here. I experimented it in my village nd i got very encouraging results, as well as support.

so if u want to do, thr r lots of work. but 1st u have to make up ur mind.

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Ganga
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 7:40 am    Post subject: grt wrk by all of u ! Reply with quote

hi all,

the topic which ajay initiated is really serious to think.And the views and experiences given by shubha,gour are really grt ones...i love this topic...really good one....

All these days i was thinking of many and doing of many...but all of sudden i felt alone and helpless...all that i cud do was to regret for the existing problems in the indian society which is less prevalant in developed countries.....

Let me put here some interesting facts which we generally come across and particularly i have seen in my state of ANDHRA PRADESH.

-On a daily basis thru news papers i observe that becoz there is no favorable rate in the market yards, farmers dump their mirchi in the near by pools.but the price of mirchi is no less than normal,which ideally should be as the mirchi produced in a particular period is high in volume and farmer favorable rate is nt quoted in the markets....Pchhhh....i dont understand the logic.
_On a daily basis i observe the veggie farmers dumping their vegetables because they dont get the favorite price for their vegetable...the reason being huge production...yes i agree to some extent it is the right reason...but in that case the prices of vegetables shud be cheaper...but that is nt the case i see.
-And the laboures get very less wages who work in agricultural fields...which is real pathetic situation...to avoid this govt should come out with dedication to fix feasible labour for them....which is nt under our control( i mean to say nt under control of navodayans)...ideally if we think the farmers can nt pay agri labourers appropriately as they dont get good marginal profits to make their own lives....they shud pay them meaningfully and charge those labour when they sell their agri production...which is nt practically happening....in fact in the market the grocerries and vegetables are too costly..than the farmer sells them.....who is making profit out of them....the mediator.....the grt idea of avoiding mediator is framed by farmer chief minister of A.P..shri N.chandrababu Naidu....but it is difficult to impliment this idea on a larger group...this whole set up of farmer's market where the goods are directly sold by farmers to the people was named "Rythu(meaning farmers in telugu)Bazaar"...which has become a flop in pracise....becoz of single reason being one centralised system controlling very large group of population...

-it will be a grt success if it is done locally...and now who will do it?


and guys i am a little busy now....and also let me come out with more wat we can do in this regard...after i get some respose from u people and suggestions from u.......

watch out this space for more.....

thanks,
Gangadhar Battula.
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 07, 2006 12:30 pm    Post subject: Re: grt wrk by all of u ! Reply with quote

Ganga wrote:
hi all,

the topic which ajay initiated is really serious to think.And the views and experiences given by shubha,gour are really grt ones...i love this topic...really good one....

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Hi Ganga,
Which Ajay are u talking? I have not contributed so far here. It is the effort of genious RAJ kishor.

Ajay
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Rewa
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 4:34 pm    Post subject: Din rat parishram mei pista,Tukron per manav palta hai Reply with quote

Hi All,

I am inspired by this topic Theme Wedding. The post written by Raj, Gour and Ganga are true and i recall this poem:


Hai ghas foos ki jhopariyan,
Inme jeevan palta hai,
Din rat parishram mei pista,
Tukron per manav palta hai.


This above poem makes us to think about our rural area. This is fact our villagers do hard work in village but they get poverty as a gift in their life. They are even not able to fill their stomach properly. We proud of our India but still people are dieing here bcos of poverty.

Raj you have written girls are committing suicide, but why?? Friends, why they are in situation to commit suicide?? I feel there are many reasons but the main reasons are poverty, Dowry and our corrupt system.

Friends, i am putting an example here. In South Korea, there is a rule that before going for a job people have to spend 4yrs in Army for their country. In our India also we should start something like this so that people from all social and economic background can come together and interact with each others and share same kind of life for a certain number of years.

I appreciate Gour though he is far from katihar now but he has started work in ground level. I appreciate Raj he is also far from his village but he made aware to his village people for their rights. I appreciate Shanta, he is there in Mumbai and not from jnv, Thane but he is doing good job for the jnvians in Thane.

Friends, Gour and Raj went home in Holi vacation and they spent their golden time by doing social work...You should have seen their happiness after that. I really feel proud of them.

wid rgds,
Rewa.
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roushan
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 11, 2006 4:57 pm    Post subject: let people know Reply with quote

Rewa wrote that she is proud of Raj, Gour and Shanta. frnds we also could feel proud if we knew details of things these guys did.
I would request Raj, Gour and shanta and all others who are doing something, to give details here in forum so we also could get inspired to do some work at ground level.
The mission you started for, the things you faced, the facts you witnessed, expextations you raised, and the emotions you gathered, all we want to know all about your experence.
It would be very inspiring to know all about it. It will be helpful to others too, who are working for something to know about what people expect from us

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Gour
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PostPosted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 6:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hi all,
I am sorry for replying late. As Ruoshan and Rewa di have asked for , what We have done . On my part , I have started two teaching centers in the nearby villages . The motto of this is to provide education to the children of the underprivileged areas . In order to settle that i had done survey on the two villages in the vacation of winter . On the basis of data it was concluded that the NGO will start the teaching center in these places also. And we started this in the vacation of holi.
I would like to put some of the data here :
All are in approximate
Village 1
no of kids from age group 3-15 : 163
No of kids doing study : 7 with slate and pencil
no of kids : in school in class 1 : 3 or 4
no of kids in school in class 2 : 1 or 2
no of kids in class 3 : 1
Only 1 student in calls 5 .
No of kids left their study before starting : rest .
from past 20 years only one matriculate from the village.
Data are similar for the village 2 .

The scenario came out after the survey was really horrible . For this type of situation we
should do so something , So we have started .As I wish we will increase this no. to 20 till summer . I know i have not done a lot .The main thing that work within me is , If i get so much of happiness on doing so less then how much happy i will if i do a lot . This is the driving force for my work. I believe in myself and think that the outer environment will push me up so that in future I will be able to do something more. If someone get inspired by this then surely write it . I will get inspired from those and my enthusiastic will grow up.All i have put in crude sense (I have not refined the ideas , so it may look bad , I apologize for that )but what i have written is true .
I don't want to stop here without saying more . So i have an idea of killing your time but it may seem you heart touching if you are sensitive enough.
Many brainstroming situation come into the picture during the survey. They don't know the good names of their chlidren . Every child has two name. One that is called by everyone that you can not put in the register. If you ask for the good name , then parents look each other and ask others
what was the name given to the child . Same case with the age. You can not expect that they know the age of their chlidren . freinds It may seem just some sentences but it has a lot of thing . In a middle class family parents care for the favourite colour , birthday , toys and a lot but why they don't even remember the age or name? Is this so because they don't dream ...... They dream but now they think that this is their fate. So dear what do you think ? Should not we do something for them ,for our society. So dear do whatever you can . Don't leave on others .I will add two line of one of the president of america " If not we then who? And if not now when?"
So remember Vivekanand and march till goal is not achieved .
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PostPosted: Sun Apr 16, 2006 3:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear all.... Hi

Thanx Gour for sharing such an enlightening and inspiring work experience with us. Certainly it will help all of us in recognizing the type of work we can do for the society. There are lot of such developments we can make to the society. These type of work do not need many people to get started. So the message i can draw from gour posting is that even if our number is less, we can make some changes.

Regarding my work, I don't know what to write. Because my work was just an experiment of my ideas. I wanted to see the effect of implimentation. And it worked and produced positive results. So i am hopeful now. Swami Vivekanand once said:

Even the least work done for others awakens the power within; even thinking the least good of others gradually instills into the heart the strength of a lion. As you have come into this world, leave some mark behind. Otherwise, what is the difference between you and the trees and stones ?

This time when i went home, i found politically hot environment of my village. I came to know that on May 2, panchayti raj election are going to be held. So i thought, i should talk to the contestents about their development plan for the village if given chance. I mobilzed some of my school friend (with whom i spend all evening) and started inviting those contestents one by one. We cleverly chose the venue as market so that most of the people can participate in interaction. To my surprise, not only contestants but junta also showed great interest nd turn up in many numbers (around 50). For me, 50 was more than enough because in village things get communicated very effectively and fast.

When, i leave my village for my institute i passed this responsibilty to my friends. But they are not that much effective but i am sure one day they will.

During such interactive session many villagers came to know about their rights. Many people were not sure about the their quota in Public distribution system. And many more things, which seem very trivial for us, but those villagers were unheard.

Thank You
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PostPosted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 6:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Great exemplary works to know and feel it's essence. I am sure success stories like these will definenetly awaken us. Thanks Raj and Gour for sharing these with all of us and best wishes for all your future deeds.

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 4:52 am    Post subject: hi all Reply with quote

hi all,

its longtime now to come back to the beloved topic..i was just thinking about to put in the post or nt..i am just afraid if we can do it or nt?

Is it possible for us to hire some agricultural land? Idea in some rural areas to make the farmers understand the modern methods to increase the productivity..and the methods like...i dont know what kind of agriculture it is but is extensively practised in u.s.a....farmers joining their hands and hiring the modern tools of agriculture and growing the crops in a large area...which yields good productivity as well reduction of expenses.... Razz

its just an idea...i want go deep into details after knowing ur reactions...

guys we are a grt team...we wil be able to do any tough task together....

but the question is...is it a good idea or nt?

pls pour in ur reactions,

thanks,
Gangadhar Battula. Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sat May 13, 2006 2:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Dear Ganga !!
Though I am not a qualified person to comment on your idea, whether it is good or not.
But it seems to me a reasonably good idea, to best my knowledge. In india what we can make them learn is to do community farming. It will increase the productivity many folds and hence farmers will prosper. What u are talking about the US ways of farming, it requires lot of capital investment, whcih our farmers lack. So in short run we can make them learn to use the existing technology in efficent manner.
I don't know, why, but i am not comfortable with the idea of mechanization of agriculture. Today's technology is costly, complex, big and violent. It will throw lot of ppl out of job. I can not tolerate this type of violence. I fully agree with the idea of Gandhi ji which stressed upon simpl, cheaper, small and non violent ways of doing the things.

After all our aim should not be the GROWTH. Human happiness should be our motto and our every step shold go in that direction. Growth without happiness is futile for me.

So i don't know which tecnology u want to bring in our agriculture sector but our existing ways are sufficient enough to bring the prosparity. What we should focus on is.. the equitable distribution of land, providing fair market and social security net to our farmers.

What say junta???
kindly post ur views Smile

Regards
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